If Liars Told You The Truth, This Is What You Would Hear…
6/12/24
The motive of a liar is to gain something valuable from you, without you noticing, or before you realize it. The valuable item can be money or something of monetary value, such as the use of your home or car, being in your family to have access to your family assets, access to your life of affluence (which can be your favor as a Christian), your social or business contacts, or your support, recommendation or vote. The value can be for monetary and/or power of influence to control money. The monetary value can be one-time or on-going. Lies are ultimately to control you, and others, in order to gain power and affluence. Whenever you can’t detect a liar, liars get to advance their ulterior motives through friendships, relationships, careers, politics, business, etc. Don’t ignore the ulterior messages of a liar. Reject the lies and the liar! Never allow a liar to have access into your personal life, because they only look to steal what you have, which could endanger your well-being, and definitely set you back.
Following are thoughts of a liar and manipulator...
1. “I demand a 100% loyalty from you, but I will NOT be loyal to you.”
2. “I demand you care about me, but I don’t care about you.”
3. “I demand you glorify me, so I can control you.”
4. “I am only your friend for a financial “come up.” I do not care about your future goals and your life; I only care about mine. Therefore, I don’t care if I destroy your future goals and your life.”
5. “I am only your love interest to get into your family’s inner circle for whatever I can gain from your family (whether it is to have a place to stay or to get close to their finances). And then I will be gone. I have no intentions of being loyal to you for life. However, I will keep my option to return open for anytime I want, to interrupt your life.”
6. I am making promises I will never keep to you. I can’t believe I keep getting away with this (because you are so gullible), but I will keep using my power over you with empty promises.”
7. “I will do every ridiculous thing to make you love me and fear me—to make you a slave to me, and I will give you only enough of my time for you to continue to obey me.”
8. “I will charm you to get you to pay me, so I can be rich, and you can be dependent on me. I will drain you financially and gain wealth, as you become poorer.”
9. “I will suggest you do something reckless that will incriminate your character, and I will use it against you to be my 'fall guy,' if anyone tries to come after me for my reckless decisions.”